He’s got a lot of amazing qualities that I will not forget about, but I think there were enough bad “ingredients” in the mix that I did not know I could deal with for a lifetime.Believe me, I am working through all the blog posts in this website so I can try to understand myself, and men, and dating even better. thanks for letting me ramble…I rarely post but something about this video spoke to me. We’ve long ago established that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.That describes most of us when it comes to dating and relationships. You’re attracted to a certain kind of personality type.Essentially, you’re trying to date yourself, with a penis. Add those all up, and you have a man who is really hard to land for a successful forty-year relationship. He wants a woman who is nurturing and thoughtful and supportive and patient and fun and playful and sexy.That kind of thinking is a huge blind spot for many women. The only way to land a man like that is to give him what he can’t get anywhere else. This doesn’t mean that he is turned off or intimidated by your intelligence or ambition, but it’s merely a bonus.The thylacine has been described as a formidable predator because of its ability to survive and hunt prey in extremely sparsely populated areas.
My brother, told me this: “Remember, there is no Mr. It’s a problem in many areas of my life: I am a pleaser, and don’t know “me”.
My mantra to women is to look for a complement, not a clone.
This may not come naturally to you, especially if you’re a smart, strong, successful woman who thinks that you “deserve” a man who is smarter, stronger, and more successful than you are. That’s why he’d date you, because you provide an element to his life that is unique and special.
what percentage of my clients found love from changing their choice of men.
All my success stories changed their choice of men. You might need your own complement, just like the alpha males I’ve described above. So, to me, your takeaway in figuring out how to attract and keep the right guy, your biggest problem is not who you are inside. The men you’re choosing are not necessarily the right guy.